Listening patiently for God

In the early days of the Church, men and women who wanted to hear God more clearly would live out in the desert or other wilderness places to get away from the noise, the distractions of living among other people. Church history records some of these efforts, as the Desert Fathers and Mothers, made caves or lean-tos their home. A few built pillars and lived on top of them. People who were seeking also to hear from God would follow the Desert Fathers and Mothers out into the wilderness and try to pattern their lives after them. So many people would gather around them that their solitude was disrupted and the Fathers and Mothers would move out even further to get away from the people.


While visiting Ghost Ranch in New Mexico, our group stayed at the Abiqui location: miles and miles of wilderness. We stayed in cabins on top of the mesa away from the rest of the camp. The sky was clear and the stars were numerous. It seemed to go on forever. The next day we wandered around the mesa. Sheer silence as I wandered further and further away from the group. The mountain sides were beautiful with rich colors of yellow, red, orange and brown. Snow blanketed the flat lands. I came upon a tiny one room building out in the quiet solitude, all alone.

Later, I asked our guide about the little building and she explained that the “hermitage” was modeled after the practice of the Desert Fathers and Mothers who built tiny dwellings away from everyone and everything in order to listen more quietly for God. The guide further explained that people would rent this building for a period of time in order to have complete solitude before God.

The thought of being completely alone, away from everything and everybody attracted as well as scared me. It was attractive as an opportunity to set aside all of the distractions in my life in order to “Be still and know …. God.” At the same time it scared me. What would it be like to give up conveniences and companionship; to be out of the loop; unaware of the happenings in the world. Would I be too lonely?

We don’t need to move out into the desert to sit quietly before God. We do need to intentionally make the time to be quiet, free from distractions, and open our hearts and mind to our Lord. Clearing space on our schedule, making a regular appointment to sit patiently before God, “Speak Lord, for your servant is listening.” Patiently sit. Patiently listen. Let go of the distractions and just be still.

Psalm 62:5 My soul, waits silently for God alone, for my expectation is from him.